how i deal with my feelings
- never talk about them
- barely acknowledge them
- hope they go away
- i don’t, basically
- that’s what i’m saying
- i do not deal with my feelings
In the 1890s, when Freud was in the dawn of his career, he was struck by how many of his female patients were revealing childhood [sexual] victimization to him. Freud concluded that child sexual abuse was one of the major causes of emotional disturbances in adult women and wrote a brilliant and humane paper called “The Aetiology of Hysteria.” However, rather than receiving acclaim from his colleagues for his ground-breaking insights, Freud met with scorn. He was ridiculed for believing that men of excellent reputation (most of his patients came from upstanding homes) could be perpetrators of incest.
Within a few years, Freud buckled under this heavy pressure and recanted his conclusions. In their place he proposed the “Oedipus complex,” which became the foundation of modern psychology… Freud used this construct to conclude that the episodes of abuse his clients had revealed to him had never taken place; they were simply fantasies of events the women had wished for… This construct started a hundred-year history in the mental health field of blaming victims for the abuse perpetrated on them and outright discrediting of women’s and children’s reports of mistreatment by men.
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That hug was a good hug, I wish to have that hug again. Errk i’m happy at the moment, I have an amazing family and such good friends!
I think the reason everyone likes Orange is the New Black so much is because we get to see everyone’s backstory and realize that even if they seem like a bad person, they’re still human and they have struggles and passions just like everyone else.
Except Vee. Fuck you Vee.
IM SO PISSED OFF THAT WE DONT HAVE BALLS ANY MORE
I WANT TO WEAR A HUGE DRESS AND BE COURTED AND DANCE AROUND AND HAVE MY GOWN SWEEP THE FLOOR AND BE ALL ELEGANT AND GRACEFUL WITH GLOVES AND SHIT
BUT NO WE HAVE DUMB HOUSE PARTIES WITH CHEAP BEER AND RED CUPS AND HORNY TEENAGE BOYS WHO PUT THEIR HANDS UP MY SHIRT
for a second there i thought you were talking about testicles omg
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- NAME: Hannah Wileman
- NICKNAME: Wiley, Wileyman
- BIRTHDAY: March 12th
- GENDER: Female
- SEXUALITY: Straight.
- HEIGHT: 5’3”
- TIME ZONE: GMT
- WHAT TIME AND DATE IS IT THERE: August 28th, 0:31pm
- AVERAGE HOURS OF SLEEP I GET EACH NIGHT: Too little! When I have work the next day 7, no work 9!
- OTPS: Blair and Chuck (Gossip Girl)
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- WHAT I LAST SAID TO A FAMILY MEMBER: THE CAT IS SO WARM AND FUZZY!!!!
- ONE PLACE THAT MAKES ME HAPPY AND WHY: On top of big hills over looking the countryside or woodland, I feel so calm amongst nature
- HOW MANY BLANKETS I SLEEP UNDER: Duvet, sheet and an extra blanket every night even if it’s boiling!
- FAVOURITE BEVERAGE: Diet Pepsi
- THE LAST MOVIE I WATCHED IN THE CINEMA WAS: Guardians of the Galaxy
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